Sometimes I have these big ideas and I just can’t manage to get there as fast as I’d like.
Remembering then that if one is going into the right direction at that person will arrive at one point. (Or you increase the chance that you will arrive)
Does it then matter how fast you arrived there? Maybe it matters because you are merely goal focused. Maybe it matters so you can do the next thing and continue to try to get as quickly as possible to the next thing and so on.
Another way would involve setting rules for your life so you can enjoy life within a set of boundaries. And these rules need to be hard rules, that you obey by even if you don’t like to. So you don’t ever need to think about trying to reach your goal as fast as possible – you just are on it naturally in balance.
What could such supporting hard rules be for you?